So my conclusion to the test, not having autonomy with the mod isn't because of the Personality mod but something in the game since I didn't have the mod in and only stopped the Idle Chat.
If I started the conversation they would chat and chat with all sorts of interactions. I created a bran new game with a new family and left them go and the welcome wagon showed up. There's nothing in there but base game everything. I took everything out of my mod folder and only put in a file to stop the idle chatting. Works with Patch: 9/26/23 <- Changes needed - See Change Log for updated files It was brought to my attention that autonomy wasn't the same.